Hello Ladies and Dudes,
I like being in control. Yes, I know, so says the Submissive….
When I get home from work I know exactly what I’m going to do. I plan my day down to every 15 mins. It makes it easier for me to be efficient. I have a full-time job, a part time hobby, friends I’d like to see and a Dom to come home to.
I have so much that I’d like to get done, so its important for me to utilize my time well.
Christopher recently told me that I often give others the long end of the stick, while giving myself the short end.
“Why’s that?” I asked.
“You cook, clean, plan events and so on,” he said. “You give up so much, why?”
“I like being in control,” I said.
“How does that make you in control if you’re doing all this for others?”
“This is my house,” I said. “I work so I can pay for it. I cook, so I enjoy what I have to eat. I clean, so it’s done to my high standard. I do it myself, so I’m not disappointed with the result. I take control, by controlling my environment.”
That’s why I love hosting out of my home. I love serving others, making sure everyones happy, because I actually enjoy hosting. I enjoy making those around me happy, but I like doing it my way.
My mother used to say: “I can’t get a job Brittany, who would clean? Who would cook?”
That always confused me. I work and I still clean and I still cook. EVERY SINGLE DAY.
I will admit, I’m a bit different. I bleach and scrub my toilet once a day, vacuum every other day, hate even a single dish in my sink. I HAVE TO clean before I can make dinner when I get home from work. I’ll get the trash ready for Christopher to take out, I’ll clean up after Kitty, feed her, fill her water bowl….
Just because I work doesn’t mean those things don’t get done. They’re my responsibilities. I take pride in them. They’re mine.
With that said, I’m genuinely happy to cook, clean, work and still be an attentive Submissive to my Dom. Christopher isn’t good at domestic stuff and when he tries, he makes a mess. That stresses me out. I’d rather he worry about the stuff he’s good at.
Like I said, no one knows how to take care of my home better than me 🙂